Susie Finch, MAMFT, LIMHP, CPC, NCC
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MY STORY
I secured my Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Southern Nazarene University in 2008. I started my individual practice in 2011 with a License in Professional Counseling and gained the National Certified Counselor (NCC) credential in 2012. I hold licenses in the states of Nebraska (LIMHP), Missouri (LPC), Oklahoma (LPC), and Washington (LMHC). I currently practice in Nebraska. I've had the privilege to journey with clients for over 13 years.
I grew up poor in inner city Indianapolis during desegregation busing in the 70s, I'm the fourth of four girls raised by a single mother in a multi-musical, culturally diverse family. I didn’t have many positive male role models growing up for guidance on navigating relationships or the opportunity to learn important life lessons from a father's perspective. Nor were there a lot of intact marriages in my family and community that exemplified what a healthy, committed relationship looked like. And yet, I knew from an early age that I wanted to do whatever it took to find and maintain my own healthy marriage, one worth having and emulating.
As I grew older, I unofficially studied every example of a positive relationship I could find. After completing a behavioral science course during my freshman year of college, I developed a passion to understand more about the way our brains and bodies are connected. I remember my behavioral science teacher explaining how despite having the most intelligent brains on the planet, humans only use a scant percentage of the entirety of their brains. This was intriguing. Our brains are the most sophisticated among any living creature and we still know so little about them.
With my passion for behavioral science and helping others, especially those marginalized, you can imagine my happy surprise when I discovered there was an entire field of marriage and family therapy! I remember saying to myself, “You mean I can make a living helping other people do what I want to learn about anyway? Where do I sign!?” A school counselor once told me that you know a career is for you when you’d do it for free if your other needs were met. Once I started my training, I became even more certain that I’d found my calling. Today, I’m living my goal of being a LIMHP focused on strengthening individual, couple, and family relationships as I continue my search for meaning to all the “whys” of human behavior that make us uniquely whole humans, personally, relationally, and spiritually.
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I have three lovely children. I enjoy traveling, art, playing the Cello, spending time with my family and pets, eating delicious things, and yammering on about whatever I happen to find interesting.
AREAS OF FOCUS
Stress/Anxiety, Immigration Evaluations, Parents/Caregivers for Individuals with Autism, Relationship Issues, ADHD, Self-Esteem/Worth, Parenting, and Coping with Life Transitions in Individual Men and Women
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Prepare/Enrich Facilitator
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Imago Relationship Therapy- Clinical Training in 2022
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Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) Practitioner
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Making Sense of Your Worth Facilitator
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INSURANCE
Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Nebraska, United Healthcare, Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare Medicare Advantage, Premera Blue Cross Washington, Regence BlueShield of Washington, Midlands Choice, Carelon Behavioral Health, Oscar Health, Oxford, and Quest Behavioral Health.
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MY APPROACH
I believe the single most important condition for an effective therapeutic experience is the connection between the Therapist and Client. This connection should be one of respect, safety and with an emphasis on growth and movement towards a more healthy place for the client.
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Much of our emotional suffering is rooted in the struggle to reconcile our unexpected and painful experiences (both past and present) with our desire for a fulfilling and happy life. At times, we find that the ways we previously made sense of life no longer fit. These difficult seasons face us all with the challenge and opportunity to find and create meaning in spite of chaos. Even in the midst of sorrow we can discover how to embrace the moments of peace and deepen our capacity for joy. Through the therapeutic encounter, I seek to cultivate a supportive environment that facilitates the gaining of deeper self-awareness while collaborating toward more authentic and satisfying engagement in relationships with others.
Contact me to determine if we are a good fit to help you get where you desire to be!​
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SUGGESTED RESOURCES
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“Good Fights” by Parrot
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“Love and Respect” by Eggerich
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"The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by Gottman
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“Sheet Music” by Leman
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"Love and Apology Languages" by Chapman
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“Boundaries” by Cloud and Townsend
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“What Are You Afraid Of?" by Jeremiah
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“How Pornography Harms” by Foubert
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“The Entitlement Cure” by Townsend
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“Sacred Marriage” by Thomas
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"Daring Greatly" by Brown
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"The Connected Child" by Cross and Purvis